
Caring for a SEND child is rewarding but can be challenging. It’s important to understand what your family is entitled to so you can make the right choices when choosing a school for your child.
Find out what school support to expect for your kinship family, and what additional support schools might offer.
This advice applies to: England
We’re running a number of workshops on how you can support your kinship child at school, both in person and online. These are free to join and aimed at kinship carers living in England.
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Only 54% of children in kinship care are getting the support they need in education
Schools should support all pupils’ needs, but particularly kinship children who may have:
Schools and local authorities must legally provide support for children looked after – or who have previously been looked after – by the local authority. If this doesn’t apply to your kinship child, you should still contact the school to find out what they can offer them.
A designated teacher promotes the educational achievement of your child.
The Department for Education specifies that schools should have a designated teacher for children:
Designated teachers should:
You can find out who the school’s designated teacher is by:
In larger (especially secondary) schools, various staff might share designated teacher duties.
Virtual schools give information and advice to kinship carers with a formal arrangement, including:
They also promote the educational achievement of children that:
Find out more about virtual schools and how they could support your kinship child.
Your child may have a disability or special educational needs that means they need extra support at school. Schools have a special educational needs co-ordinator (SENCO) to manage the support for these children.
If the school thinks your child has special educational needs, they should talk to you.
If you think your child has special educational needs, you can speak to the school. Contact the school’s SENCO if you want to talk through any concerns.
Schools help most SEND children using a process called ‘SEND support’. Some children with more complex SEND may have an assessment to get an education, health and care plan (EHC plan).
Read more about children with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND).
The government provides special funding for schools in England, to promote education for children the government considers disadvantaged. This could include some kinship children.
The main additional funds available are:
Find out more about these on our pupil premium plus page.
If you’re worried about your child at exam time, talk to their teacher or special educational needs co-ordinator (SENCO) as early as possible. They may be able to offer support with:
If your kinship child has a special educational need or disability the school might be able to apply for exam access arrangements. Access arrangements help your child take the exam with some adjustments, without changing the demand of it.
Some examples of access arrangements are:
Your child’s school might need to apply to the exam board to request an access arrangement. Speak to your child’s teacher or SENCO if you want to find out more.
If your child’s school refuses to arrange support, you can write to the school governors using this template from the independent provider of special education advice (IPSEA). Otherwise, you can go through your school’s complaints policy.
Schools can apply to exam boards for special consideration if their student had a negative experience during the exam period. This includes a recent bereavement or a recent domestic crisis.
Speak to your child’s teacher if you think your child might have a case for special consideration. The school can only apply after the exam has happened.
Kinship children may find past experiences impacting their current behaviour. The school should recognise this and support them to improve. They should consider difficult past experiences, and help in a trauma-informed, attachment-aware way.
The support will depend on the school, but could include:
If your child’s behaviour in their education setting concerns you, talk to your child’s:
You might be able to tell the school what triggers behaviour changes in your child. This will help you work together to find solutions that might help your child.
If you’re not sure what could be triggering your child’s behaviour changes, we have a free workshop about managing challenging behaviour that you might find useful.
When your child risks exclusion, arrange a meeting with the school. Check their behaviour policy – it should be on their website – and reference it in your meeting.
If your child:
the designated teacher should talk to you about their behaviour. They can also ask the virtual school for advice.
Schools should have high aspirations for kinship children. All pupils can achieve their academic potential, despite past traumas. They should understand that care experience does not reflect a child’s academic ability.
The school should inform you about your kinship child’s:
If you want to talk more about your child’s progress, contact your child’s teacher (or school) directly.
All kinship carers should expect clear communication with schools. This is much easier in primary schools, where children usually have 1 class teacher. Secondary school can make this harder, with children having many teachers.
You can ask the school for a single person to speak to, to avoid confusion or information duplication. This could be:
It’s also good practice for kinship children to have a trusted adult in school. This is a member of staff they can go to if they’re experiencing any kind of difficulty.
A “transition” is a move between schools or classes, for example:
Transitions can be difficult for kinship children, who may have already experienced a lot of life changes and disruption. Schools and teachers should carefully manage them. Find out more about school transitions and moving schools.
Here at Kinship, we offer a range of free support for all kinship carers, including:
To find services, information and support in your local area – including information about your local children’s services – use our Kinship Compass tool.
You can also contact the Kinship advice team for free, non-judgmental advice and information if you live in England or Wales.
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